Hello good people and citizens of the world!
It's been a minute since I've blogged and I figured I'd start off BHM with a pretty simple list of things I'm loving, working on, anticipating, etc. I used to complete these types of lists on the blog fairly consistently, so I decided, in lei of consistency being one of my words for the year, snuggled up with 'accountability', why not bring the series back? Not only is this a simple, "ice-breaker" way to get reacclimated to blogging again, it's helping me fill the void I've experienced from not writing and cultivating my need to create just for the fun of it.
♡ Aiming to: wake up every single day and do at least 3 things that contribute to my success and accomplishing my goals, an idea I adopted from one of my fave YouTubers, Erin on Demand, who - I believe - was the creator initially responsible for the concept of the Top 3 challenge, that encouraged her audience to write down just 3 goals to do daily that would ultimately help check off . So far, so good, but there's still plenty of room for improvement
♡ Thinking: that it's beyond time for me to start blogging consistently again (and later I'll discuss why 'consistency' is one of my words for the year) and this post is obviously my attempt at doing so.
♡ Doing: the work it takes to heal and pour into myself in order to be in position to consistently show up as my best self, which includes going to therapy, something I never thought I'd be comfortable doing, but has proven to be extremely helpful
♡ Reading: 2 books alongside each other, one being 'Professional Troublemaker: The Fear-Fighter Manual' by: Luvvie Ajayi Jones, one that was recently recommended to by my therapist, as well as one of my new favorite YouTubers, Troyia Monay | 'The Silvered Serpents' - Roshani Chokshi
If you're interested the books I'm reading or are looking for some dope book recommendations, I do have a #bookstagram account @bookgyalmagic just for you. Follow me there.
♡ Working on: a few things, one of them being the relaunch of #TheSkyBoxSuite...it's been a long time coming and I'm so mad at myself for missing/failing to live Tweet the Super Bowl game and halftime show this year, but I do plan on writing a super late review of Super Bowl LVI. I've been considering resurrecting my YouTube channel, but we'll see about that.
- In addition to that, I've been pouring mad energy into a major project that I've been working on, planning, and researching for quite some time at this point.{Spoiler: It has a LOT to do for my long suppressed interest in fashion when it comes to personal style and self-expression through my own style choices. I can't wait to spill all the beans...so trust, more details are otw!}
- I've recently taken on the role of contributor to STRUT, an Detroit-based online publication "...dedicated to women’s excellence, abundance and authentic journeys to peace and fulfillment..." So far, I've only written one article but I'm hella excited to now be a part of a team of bomb a$$ women helping other women navigate the complexities of womanhood.
- Lastly - and this one has been one that has been subconsciously put on the back burner (for years, probably and honestly) - I am working on my debut novel. When that's launched, the blog will be first "crowd" to know, promise.
♡ Wanting: Other than a couple million deposited in my account, I want... a few of these gorgeous crystals and this rose quartz yoni egg from Mystic Mami - another one of my favorite YouTubers...I think I have a problem... | the book I mentioned earlier to be in my actual collection | This shirt | Chance x Chanel and a customized Miss Dior perfumes. | a Women in Sports Social Club Hoodie from Jordan Roberson's brand, She's Seaux Sporty | a new tattoo
♡ Loving: ...the peaceful state I'm finally starting to exist and relax in...love it here. A part of this new found place of internal peace, I have to credit my new pup, Lady Sheba, a German Shepherd Husky mix, for showing up at a time when I needed her the most without even realizing she was exactly what I needed. Speaking of new pup, I'd experience several dog related losses over the past few years, and I honestly did not think I was prepared to take on the responsibility of taking care of another yet one. especially after losing 2 dogs, one passing away, and on top of that, experiencing multiple miscarriages (another post for another day). However, it has been such a joy and a blessing to welcome this new fur baby into my life. She's been the perfect guard dog, emotional support animal, and an incredible friend this past month and I can only hope that she's a part of my life for many years to come.
...and can we take a moment to appreciate and gush over how dope it is that our favorite bad gyal, Ri Ri, is expecting her first child with partner and rapper, A$AP Rocky, how absolutely stunning she looked in her maternity shoot, and how much I adore them as a couple!?!? Let's do it as a family, shall we?
Photo credit: Miles Diggs a.k.a Diggzy
♡ Wearing: outfits and pieces I currently have that reflect the wardrobe I'm aiming to build for myself. The vibe I'm going for is chic, yet effortless.
♡ Winning: at life, because I'm making a conscious decision to prioritize and focus more of my energy on myself and overall development. Last year was insane (I have Storytime-esque content for DAYSSSS), but like Issa Rae so eloquently put it: "It's feeling like me season right now" and I have never resonated with an affirmation more.
♡ Anticipating: the premier of Winning Time, the new drama series coming out next month on HBOmax that chronicles the the lives of the 1980's Los Angeles Lakers and the rise of one of the most legendary sports dynasties to exist. Brilliant. Anyone who knows me well, knows that this is definitely going to be on my radar soon! Speaking of the city of angels, God-willing, I'll be relocating back to California before the end of the year, so stay tuned for that.
Tell me...what have you been loving, working on, and anticipating in your own life?
-Signing off-
Chymere A.
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